The Archetypes of Men Who Visit Me

In my line of work, I see men as they truly are—not the polished facades they show the world, but the raw, unguarded selves they reveal behind closed doors that gives me a glimpse into their deepest desires...

…. And as you read.. ask yourself the question.. do you recognise yourself in any of these? I would love to know what you think next time you visit me..

1. The High-Powered Executive

He’s the one always in charge — CEOs, managing directors, empire-builders. The kind of man who commands boardrooms but kneels effortlessly before me. He doesn’t want to think. Doesn’t want to lead. He wants to let go.. and for the hour or so he is with me.. just have me be in control of his world. 

This archetype is a personal favourite place in my heart... Whether it is because of my pricing is on the higher end of town and I tend to float in global financial hubs like Hong Kong, Singapore, New York, and Sydney… naturally I tend to attract quite a few of these men... I must admit there’s a thrill in the power inversion—knowing I’ve brought these commanding figures to their knees, make them beg — (or even peg them) and yes, they pay handsomely for the privilege. It’s a poetic justice that never fails to bring a smirk to my face… 

2. The Curious Novice

Wide-eyed. Eager. Often younger. They’ve seen something — a scene, a story, a tweet that made them curious — and they want in. First-timers who stumble into my world not knowing what to expect..  They’re unsure, pliable, open minded. And I adore guiding them. Watching curiosity bloom into craving is one of my finest pleasures.. for these folks, it may be a once off or it may be a delivish path that spurse them into the relm of BDSM.

3. The Submissive Dreamer

Soft-spoken. Gentle. Devoted. These men do not submit to be broken — they submit to belong. Their fantasies aren’t rooted in humiliation, but in reverence. Service becomes their love language, obedience their offering. There’s a rare sweetness to these men, a romanticism in their submission that feels almost sacred. They don’t play the role — they embody it. It’s in the way they speak, the way they fold their hands, the way they look at you like you are both altar and deity. Often raised in matriarchal households or in the shadow of powerful feminine figures, their submissiveness is not a kink, but a constitution. And perhaps that’s why, in their presence, I feel safe too. Cherished. Understood. They are my favourite sessions — not because they are extreme, but because they are real. It's their very nature - their very essence.

5. The Fetish Enthusiast

He knows exactly what he wants. Leather brushing skin. The click of heels. The sting of cane. His world is built around specific cravings, rituals, sensations. They may be also open to trying new things and expand 

6. The Beta

He doesn’t just submit — he craves having his masculinity dismantled piece by piece. Whether through cuckoldry, sissification, or verbal degradation, his pleasure lives in the unmaking of the masculine mask he’s been forced to wear. He is not weak — he is devastatingly aware of the cost of macho posturing. Society demands performance: to be desirable, powerful, stoic — but he finds liberation in the exact opposite. In the humiliation of “not being enough,” he finds a strange and exquisite relief in the stripping away of masculine pride, he feels pleasure...